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A recipe for self-care

Suicide can seem like an option when a person loses their ability to cope with feelings such as anxiety, depression and loneliness. To minimize these feelings, it’s important to take care of yourself through self-care. See how you can work self-care into your daily routine to improve your physical and emotional well-being.

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Any recipe depends on the right combination of ingredients. Our recipe for self-care is a mix of healthy habits and practices that support your well-being and strengthen your ability to cope with life’s challenges.

Connect with people
Who is important to you? Make time to call, text, or visit friends, family, co-workers, neighbors, or members of your church.
Do things you enjoy more often
Maybe it’s as simple as reading a book or taking a drive. Use more of your time off for pleasure. The to-do list can wait.
Slow down
When life gets hectic, take a few moments to pause and breathe. Try yoga or meditation sessions online or find some good apps.
Live healthier
Eat healthy food and add more fruit and vegetables to each meal. Exercise 20-30 minutes each day, doing activities that make you happy. Get plenty of sleep each night so you feel energized in the morning. Keep up with routine checkups and talk with your doctor about any problems and concerns. Seek help to quit habits that are not healthy for you – such as using tobacco, vaping, or drinking more than two or three drinks per week.
Reach out
If you’re struggling, the resources below can provide help and support.

 

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Tweens, teens and suicide

The rise in suicide among tweens and teenagers is a disturbing trend. It’s become the second leading cause of death in people ages 10 to 241, ahead of cancer and heart disease. Get the facts and know what you can do to help protect the young people in your life.

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The tween and teen years are a vulnerable time. Everyday stresses — school difficulties, family conflicts, breakups, bullying — make it difficult to cope. They may have trouble seeing the temporary nature of these problems, and suicide can seem like a solution. Understand how to tell if your tween or teen might be suicidal, and know the resources available to help.

How to help

Talk and listen. Feeling connected to family and school is one of the most important things for a younger person’s mental health. An important first step in helping them is to talk and listen. Ask how they are feeling and offer support. Start by saying, “Sometimes people who are struggling may think about suicide. Is this happening with you?” Make sure they know you care.

Engage others for help. If there is a teacher, coach, or staff member at school your child is close to, you may want to have a conversation with them and include your child if possible. You can also contact your family doctor for help and referrals to the right mental health professional(s) near you.

Keep them safe. Be sure to safely store or lock up firearms, alcohol, and medications. Easy access can turn risk into action if a teen is feeling overwhelmed.

Give them a hug. It seems like such a simple thing, but taking the time to hug your child and tell them you’re there for them can help them feel a sense of security.

Did you know? More than 1.8 million LGBTQ young people seriously consider suicide every year in the U.S. To learn more and know how to support an LGBTQ teen, call The Trevor Project’s Lifeline at 866-488-7386.

1The Jason Foundation. Youth suicide statistics. Accessed July 13, 2021.

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Tweens and teens on suicide prevention

In this short video created by the Mayo Clinic, tweens and teens describe how it feels to be considering suicide and what common signs parents and others can look for. They provide encouragement for communicating directly to your child to support them and keep them safe.

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Source: Mayo Clinic. Teen Suicide prevention.

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How much sleep is enough

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Get enough sleep — through all stages of life

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Sleep needs and sleep deprivation

One of the basics of good health is getting enough sleep. But how much is enough? Sleep needs change as we age:

Sleep needs are different by gender, too. Women need 20 minutes more sleep than men, on average.1

Is it good sleep?

Sleep provides important benefits, such as a stronger immune system, healthier weight, and sharper mind. And the key to these benefits is deep sleep — the stage of sleep when your brainwaves are the slowest. In healthy adults, between 13% and 23% of an eight-hour sleep should be deep sleep.2 Without it, symptoms of sleep deprivation, including less concentration, slowed thinking and mood changes, can start to kick in. Plus, ongoing sleep deprivation puts you at an increased risk for depression.

No matter your age, getting enough rest is essential to a healthy mind and body, yet about a quarter of U.S adults still report not getting enough sleep!3

If you’re concerned about your quality of sleep, or your child’s, your Costco benefits may be able to help. Make a sleep plan with the help of your primary care provider or child’s pediatrician.

1Elkins L. Who REALLY needs more sleep – men or women? Daily Mail. Accessed June 9, 2021.

2Colten HR, Altevogt BM. Sleep disorders and sleep deprivation: an unmet public health problem. National Center for Biotechnology Information. Accessed June 9, 2021.

3Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Sleep and sleep disorders. Data & statistics. Accessed June 9, 2021.

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Why sleep is so important

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Why sleep is so important

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Source: How sleep affects your health, American Heart Association, 2020.

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6 tips for better sleep

Want to fall asleep quickly and stay asleep longer? In this TED Series video, sleep scientist Matt Walker explains how your room temperature, lighting and other easy-to-fix factors can set the stage for a better night’s rest.

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Source:   6 tips for better sleep video. TED series, 2020.

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Ease anxiety with this body scan

We all want peaceful relationships with friends and family, but even the healthiest bonds will have times of conflict. And while it’s natural to want to push those uncomfortable feelings away, bringing attention to them actually helps the emotions move through you. The result? You bring more peace to your relationships, which helps them thrive.

Practice accepting challenging emotions with this soothing, five-minute body scan from AbleTo.

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Source:   AbleTo, April 2020

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Healthy boundaries, healthy relationships

We all feel overwhelmed at times by personal and professional obligations. But for some of us, it’s actually a struggle to say no when we really want to. Feelings of guilt, fear of being seen as selfish, and discomfort over letting others down can make it hard to do what’s best for ourselves. But when we take on too much or don’t put ourselves first, it can be hard to maintain healthy boundaries — the very thing that can keep us from burning out. Boundaries can also help us create healthy relationships by setting limits on our time and energy.

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We choose our relationships with significant others and friends, but we can’t choose relationships with family and coworkers. Whether we choose them or not, having healthy relationships at any age helps improve our mental health, provides social support and reduces stress. In order to build a healthy relationship, we need to have:

  • Awareness — Be present and engaged during conversations. Show respect for others and their opinions, even if you don’t agree. Expect the same from others.
  • Balance — Give enough support and time to relationships you value. Be conscious of how much energy you give to others, remembering to leave some for yourself.
  • Communication — Demonstrate active listening by not interrupting and asking relevant questions. Use body language to show you’re engaged.

Beyond maintaining healthy boundaries and relationships for yourself, it’s important that children of any age understand what’s healthy and what’s not. Through relationships, children learn how to think, understand, communicate, behave, express emotions and develop social skills.

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How to overcome or avoid student loan debt

Do you have student loan debt, or are you considering a student loan for yourself or a loved one? If so, getting the facts and using resources available through your Costco benefits can help you make the right decision about something that can affect you for years to come. The average college student graduates with $35,000 in student loan debt, with an average monthly payment of $393, according to EducationData.org.

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What to consider before you take on a student loan:

Good debt? Not so fast — the conventional wisdom that student loan debt is “good debt” is being challenged. Don’t let the allure of a dream school disrupt your financial well-being. Select a school you can afford. If you are unsure about the best path for you, consider starting with a community college or an associate’s degree. Taking this route first can save money while you figure out what’s next.

Do the math — people often don’t anticipate how quickly debt adds up over the years. Then the regret sets in. About one in four of those with a bachelor’s degree have misgivings about taking on student loans. That number jumps to almost one-third of those who’ve earned a master’s degree. Advanced degrees can help students achieve long-term success, but it’s a good idea to explore in-state options over out-of-state if you decide to take this route.

Look down the road — be sure to do the research on earning potential for the career you are interested in pursuing. Set yourself up for success by not burdening yourself with student loan debt that a future salary can’t support.

Already have student loans? There is a student loan resources page on Costcobenefits.com to help you tackle student debt.

 

Source: Average Student Loan Payment, EducationData.org, 2021.

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Food and fitness changes that add up

We’ve all heard that it’s the little things that count. The saying is also true for losing weight and improving overall health. Because the more you’re able to make small, positive changes stick in your daily life, the more likely you are to meet your goal. The secret? Go with what feels right for you. There’s no one-size-fits-all eating or exercise plan.

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Consider the following tips to help you make small (but meaningful)
steps toward lifelong health
Forget diets
Whether low fat or high protein, most eating plans involve rigid rules and taboo foods — an approach that’s hard to sustain. Set yourself up for success by striving to eat primarily whole foods in moderate portions. Try these tips to stay on track.

  • Visit the farmers market to pick up delicious, seasonal fruits and veggies. You may even discover new favorites.
  • Partner with a friend or family member to help keep you accountable and support you with your nutrition goals. Try swapping fresh, healthy recipe with them.
  • Tote baby carrots, an apple or unsalted nuts with you during the day so you’re less tempted to indulge in unhealthy convenience foods.
  • Reward yourself for sticking to your commitment to making positive changes.
Get moving
Too often, exercise slips down our list of priorities when our schedule gets busy. Here are a few tips to reframe thinking about exercise as ‘one more thing to do,’ and instead, to look at it as a fun and sustainable part of your life.

  • Combine movement with things you really want to do, like playing soccer with your family or catching up with friends over a long walk.
  • Put on some music or a favorite TV show. Moving to your favorite song can energize you and make exercising more enjoyable. Try doing body weight exercises during commercials like squats, lunges or planks. You could even make it a fun family challenge to see who can do the most.
  • Find an environment where you can truly enjoy moving your body. Some people like to go to a park, group class or public gym to get a workout in. Others like the solitude of working out from the comfort of their home or backyard. It doesn’t matter where you spend the time, as long as you’re comfortable and happy where you are.
  • Try a beginner’s class in a sport or activity you’ve never tried before. There’s little pressure to perform — and you may discover a new passion!

Are you struggling with time or motivation? Check out these 25 tips on how to make the most of only 10 minutes of movement a day.